Self-Care During Grief

  • By Bridgwater Funerals
  • 23 Aug, 2024
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The experience of losing a loved one can turn your world upside down, altering your reality in profound ways. You may initially find solace in busying yourself with funeral preparations, but once life seems to resume its normal pace, the true impact of your loss can come crashing down. Self-care during grief is essential to your physical and mental well-being. Bridgwater Funeral Services helps people in Bridgwater, Somerset, learn to handle self-care during grief.

Maintain Connections

Death may halt life, but it doesn't cut the ties of a relationship. If you frequently communicated with the deceased in life, consider maintaining that practice. Many people find solace in speaking to their departed loved ones. This may seem unusual, but it can be comforting. Some find relief in scribbling their thoughts in a journal or letter.

Engage with People Around You

People around you might not want to invade your space while grieving and might assume you'll reach out if needed. Take the initiative by calling or sending a message to friends and family. Though it may be hard to reach out, it can help you heal.

Listen to Your Needs

Don't shy away from your feelings. If you feel like crying, let it out. If you're tired, take a nap. It's essential to listen to your body's needs.

Take Your Time

Bridgwater Funeral Services understands there is no time limit on grieving. Give yourself grace by taking grief one day at a time. It's essential to remember that grief is something that goes with you throughout life. You may struggle with it on special days, so take your time to work through it.

Ease Your Expectations

Be kind to yourself, and lower your expectations. Handling grief can be draining, so don't pressure yourself to operate at the same intensity as before. You might find it helpful to jot down achievable tasks.

Resume Familiar Activities

If you're wondering how to distract yourself from grief, doing things you love is often best. Engage in hobbies or explore new adventures. Take this time to dive into activities that make you smile.

Maintain Your Health

Death can weigh heavily on mental health, which directly affects physical health. Try to stick to a regular exercise routine, eat healthily and sleep well. If you struggle with any of these, consult your doctor.

Seek Bereavement Support

Don't hesitate to seek professional help. It's essential to speak about your grief and work through it. You can get bereavement counselling services physically and virtually.

Helping You Begin Your Grief Journey

Bridgwater Funeral Services is here to help you through your grief journey. Since 2002, our funeral services have helped families begin the grieving process. We're here for you with personalised funeral services and friendly team to help you through this journey. Our team welcomes you into our family. We offer green and woodland burials, military funerals, and horse-drawn funerals. We provide services in all religious denominations and non-religious and humanist life celebrations. If you have questions, we're always here for you. Contact us today to learn more about self-care during grief.

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