What to Send When Someone Dies Instead of Flowers

Corrinne Foster • July 25, 2025
A letter next to a blue ribbon and remembrance items

When someone experiences a loss, it's natural to want to express sympathy meaningfully. While flowers have long been a traditional gesture, numerous thoughtful alternatives can provide lasting comfort and better reflect the life and values of the departed. Here, we explore a few condolence gifts beyond traditional floral arrangements.

Plant a Memorial Tree

A memorial tree not only serves as a living tribute but also creates a lasting testament to the deceased's life. Planting a tree can also offer grieving families a peaceful place to reflect. 

There are organisations dedicated to planting trees in memory of loved ones, or you might work with the family to plant one in their garden or a park. Over time, a memorial tree becomes a growing, enduring symbol of love and connection.

Send a Thoughtful Meal

Offering food to a grieving family is a thoughtful and practical gesture that provides comfort during a challenging time. Prepared meals, frozen dishes, or soups are particularly helpful, as they require minimal effort to heat and serve. These gestures not only ease the burden of meal preparation but also offer nourishment when it might otherwise be overlooked.


Consider sending hearty, comforting options like casseroles, stews or baked goods. Some services specialise in delivering meal packages tailored to those experiencing loss, allowing you to send support even from afar. This act of kindness lets grieving families focus on healing without worrying about everyday tasks. 

Donations in Memory of the Deceased

Donating to a charity or cause close to the deceased's heart can be a particularly meaningful gesture. For example, if the person supported wildlife conservation or cancer research, contributing to a related organisation keeps their legacy alive. 

This approach not only honours their values but can also provide comfort to grieving families, knowing their loved one’s memory continues to make a difference. 

Send Something From the Heart

Other meaningful gifts might include a custom photo album or framed picture that celebrates treasured moments shared with the loved one who has passed. A handwritten letter recounting personal memories or the departed's positive impact on your life can also be immensely touching.

You could also create a memory jar with small notes of shared stories, kind words and uplifting thoughts to help them find solace when needed. A personalised piece of jewellery engraved with a meaningful date, name or short quote can be an enduring reminder of their loved one.

Alternatively, gifting a handmade quilt or blanket, possibly incorporating fabrics or patterns meaningful to the deceased, can provide warmth and comfort for years. Each of these gifts carries a deeply personal touch, resonating with the unique bond between the giver, the recipient and the memory of the loved one.

Why Thoughtful Alternatives Matter

While flowers are beautiful, they often have a short lifespan and can add to the overwhelming volume of floral arrangements families receive. A well-thought-out alternative, on the other hand, can make a lasting impact, providing comfort during a period of unimaginable grief.

Bridgwater Funeral Services Offers Support

At Bridgwater Funeral Services, we understand the importance of finding the right way to honour a loved one. Whether you’re considering donations, memorial trees or other condolence gifts, we’re here to help you make thoughtful decisions. 

Feel free to contact us for guidance and support. Together, we can ensure that every gesture, however small, becomes a meaningful part of a difficult time. 

For compassionate and personalised funeral services in Bridgwater and Somerset, contact us today.
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