What to Write on a Funeral Flowers Card

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Writing a message on a funeral flowers card can feel overwhelming, but a few short words can carry deep meaning and comfort grieving families. Serving Bridgwater, Somerset and surrounding areas, Bridgwater Funerals is here to provide some practical advice.

Choosing sincere words is essential, whether you're sending flowers to a friend, relative or colleague. Your message should reflect your relationship with the person who has passed and offer peace or support to those mourning their loss. Below are thoughtful ideas to help you choose the right message.

When someone passes away, you might feel like whatever you write won’t be enough, or struggle to limit your words. However, there isn’t a magic formula for what to say, so if your message is authentic, those grieving will surely appreciate it. Here are a few things to consider for what to write on a funeral flowers card:

• Acknowledge the Death — It’s key to mention the loss directly rather than avoiding it out of discomfort. Acknowledging the loss shows respect and lets the grieving person know you're open to future conversations if they need grief support.
• Keep Your Message Authentic — Don’t worry about writing something perfect — heartfelt, simple words often mean the most. Sharing a memory or saying how much you’ll miss the person feels more genuine than a generic message.
• Offer Assistance, Not Advice — Avoid offering advice or trying to fix the situation with phrases like “stay positive.” Instead, show you care by expressing sympathy and, if possible, offering practical support.

Expressing your sympathy or support can be challenging when sending flowers to a funeral. Keeping your message short and heartfelt is often the best approach. Here’s what to write for shorter funeral flowers card messages:

• “With deepest sympathy.”
• “Thinking of you in this difficult time.”
• “Forever in our hearts.”
• “Gone but never forgotten.”
• “Wishing you peace and comfort.”
• “With love and remembrance.”
• “Heartfelt condolences to you and your family.”

Longer messages can include personal reflections, words of encouragement, or touching sentiments to honour the deceased. Here’s what to write for longer funeral flowers card messages:

• “Our hearts are heavy with sadness, but we find comfort in the countless joyful memories we shared. [Name] was a remarkable soul whose laughter, kindness, and love will always remain with us. Sending you love and strength during this difficult time."
• “In loving memory of a beautiful life lived to its fullest. [Name] touched the hearts of so many and left a legacy of love and warmth. May the memories bring strength and peace in the days to come."
• “Though [Name] is no longer physically with us, their spirit lives on in the love they shared and the lives they touched. May you find solace in remembering their incredible impact on the world."
• “Please know that you are deeply loved and surrounded by those who care. We are here to support you as you honour the memory of [Name], whose light will never fade."

Faith-based messages can express a peaceful farewell with the belief in a continued connection through faith. Here are examples of religious messages that offer peace, hope, and gratitude in a respectful and loving way:

• “You are in our thoughts and prayers.”
• “Goodnight and God bless.”
• “May you rest in peace in God’s heaven.”
• “In God’s arms may you gently rest.”
• “May the Lord bless you and keep you in His care.”
• “Wherever you are, God is.”
• “May our Lord bless and comfort you during this time of grief. Please accept our sincere condolences.”

Choosing the right words to say to someone grieving isn’t easy, especially when offering comfort. Being authentic is always the best approach but knowing which phrases to avoid writing on a funeral flowers card is essential. Here are some phrases to avoid writing on a funeral flowers card:

• “They are in a better place.”
• “Everything happens for a reason.”
• “At least they lived a long life.”
• “You will get over it soon.”
• “Heaven needed another angel.”

Bridgwater Funerals is here to help you give your loved one an exceptional memorial service, including tips for what to write on a funeral flowers card. With our experience planning funeral services in Bridgwater, Somerset, and surrounding areas, we know funeral flower cards don’t need to be long or poetic. A few sincere words can show love, care, and respect. Focus on keeping your message honest, gentle, and appropriate for the person and their family. So, whether arranging flowers for a local funeral or sending condolences from afar, your words can bring a quiet moment of comfort when needed most. Contact us today for more information.