How should you feel after losing someone you love? Grief is the response to loss, but does everyone experience it the same way? Actually, grief can cause us to feel many different emotions over time, even some that might not seem to make sense. People experience grief in various ways, and there is no wrong way to grieve. Even people in the same family may feel differently after they’ve suffered the same loss. Grief can feel unending, but there are ways to come to terms with it, understanding it and learning to cope.
We use certain terms to describe our response to loss, and the words “grief”, “mourning”, and “bereavement” are often used interchangeably, though they mean slightly different things. Grief is the emotional response to loss, while mourning is the process of adjustment after a loss, and bereavement is the time spent in grief and mourning. You may have heard of the five stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. These are the findings of psychiatrist Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, but they do not cover everything you might experience after a loss. Kübler-Ross herself stated that the stages were just meant to sort messy emotions into packages so that people could better understand them, but that there is no such thing as typical loss. Common responses to loss include:
In the midst of something as tumultuous as grief, it can feel like it will never end. Fortunately, grief does eventually fade. You may never entirely stop missing your loved one or feeling the loss, but it will not always feel as unbearable as it does in the beginning. Grief is deeply personal, and there is no set timeframe to experience it, but there are certain steps you can take to begin to adjust to grief and find your path towards healing.
Sometimes, having a funeral for a loved one can be the first step on the road towards healing. When the time comes, you can trust Bridgwater Funeral Services Limited to provide you with compassionate, caring assistance. Founded in 2002 by Nigel Gillard, Bridgwater Funeral Services Limited, in the centre of Bridgwater, Somerset, is a family business that provides personal service 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Nigel has been working in the funeral business for over 15 years, and his daughter Corrinne Foster, who is the highest qualified Funeral Director in the area, assists in running the business. We are committed to taking care of all funeral arrangements, welcoming our clients into a professional, friendly environment, with a luxurious waiting room and a beautiful Chapel of Rest. We offer Green and Woodland burials, horse-drawn funerals, military funerals, and services in all religious denominations as well as non-religious and humanist life celebrations. We also offer low-cost funerals and Golden Charter pre-paid funeral plans. If you have queries about the services we offer, or you just need help and advice, please do not hesitate to call us at 01278 457755, pop into our office on Bristol Road, or contact us through our website.